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10 Things You Should Never Do When Filing for Divorce

On Behalf of | Mar 11, 2026 | Divorce

Filing for divorce in West Virginia can affect your money, property and time with your children. Simple mistakes early on can hurt your case.

Don’t hide or waste assets

West Virginia follows equitable distribution. Courts divide marital property fairly, though not always equally, under West Virginia Code §48-7-103.

If you hide money or spend it on gambling or an affair, the judge may give your spouse a larger share. Being honest about your finances helps protect you.

Don’t use your children to get back at your spouse

Judges focus on what is best for your children. If you involve them in adult problems or try to turn them against the other parent, it can hurt your custody case.

Don’t break court rules

After filing, certain financial restrictions usually apply. You should not transfer property, cancel insurance or empty joint accounts without approval.

Violations can result in sanctions or unfavorable rulings.

Don’t ignore the one-year separation rule

If you file based on living separately, you must live apart for a full year. Moving back in together, even briefly, can restart that clock.

Don’t post on social media

Anything you post online can be used in court. Angry comments, party photos or spending posts may damage your case.

It is often safer to stay quiet online.

Don’t move out without thinking it through

Leaving the marital home may affect temporary custody arrangements and property claims. If children remain in the home, your absence could influence early parenting decisions.

Don’t refuse to negotiate reasonably

Divorce often requires compromise. Refusing mediation or acting out of spite may increase costs and prolong litigation.

Don’t fail to gather financial records

You need documentation to prove income, assets and debts. Courts review tax returns, bank statements and loan records when dividing property and setting support.

Incomplete records can weaken your case.

Protect your interests with informed guidance

West Virginia divorce law includes detailed rules on property division and separation. Missteps in disclosure, timing or negotiation may have lasting financial effects.

Before filing or responding, consider reviewing your situation with a qualified attorney.